Has a Hot Chick ‘Friend Zoned’ You?


why are women attracted to rakes over the good guy like ants attracted to honey? you really cannot blame her though, a douchebag holds lots of promise than the nice guy. have you ever wondered why you end up in the ‘friend zone’ with the hottest girl you want to hook up with?

here are a few pointers

takes for granted
you are absolutely there whenever disaster strikes or not strikes! you are more like the rug under her feet than the swashbuckling hero who rides in to her rescue after a frantic yell for the hero – in short you are too easily available and have become a fixture that she complacently ignores.

confidante
being friends with your girl is cool and is a rock solid foundation for a relationship to sustain. but it does not bode well when you become the standby girl gang who patiently listens to her rants and confidential outpourings. you offer advice and counsel. nay!! a woman wants a male not a wimp who hides his feelings.

 

the sun factor
your every waking hour is spent thinking, second guessing her choices, moods and on methods to keep her happy. every action is spurred by your need to win her approval. she the sun of your life and she decides your dress code, hairstyle, activities etc. you bend over backwards, even do somersaults to please her. this atkit ;)ude does not show a strong personality and no spiny man are a no-no.

be utterly bu##terly nice
you are always nice to her even when you want to shout/rant and rave at her actions, you put on a pleasing smile hoping to impress her with your sweetness. naww, girls sometimes need to be told the truth straight up!

leeways extends for miles
you end up giving your girlfriend the benefit of the doubt even when logic tells you, she is the one at fault. what do you do? instead of expressing your cold disapproval or displeasure you try instead to din some sense into her with sensible suggestions, unsolicited advice and sage counselling. hello, girls already have a mother to do this bit.

endless waiting

you wait and wait and completely wait it out while another dude comes and snatches the bird you were sloooowly snaring. there are times when you have to shirk your innate cowardliness and make a bold move, especially when you have fixed on a girl. make the move before somebody else does!

lastly, you are in the friendzone because you allowed yourself to be ‘zoned’. there is a difference between being courteous and sweet, between understanding and spineless. when you belong to the latter, you inevitably find yourself in the ‘friendzone’court.

Uma Maheshwari

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